I Can’t: Find Love

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Are you looking for love?
Do you wonder why dating isn't working for you even though you are a smart, accomplished, attractive human?
Are you frustrated by how hard it is to keep putting time, energy, and focus into finding your soulmate?
Are you intrigued by the idea of meeting the love of your life but think it's never going to work for you?
Does the mere idea of getting back into the dating game make you feel nauseous?

If you answered yes to one or more of these questions, I Can't: Find Love is for you and you aren’t the only one.

'Member camp? Where you learned, participated, and stretched yourself amongst an invigorating blend of familiar and new faces? Where you were led by welcoming, low-key counselors in a welcoming, low-key environment?

I Can't: Find Love is part of Mac & Cheese ProductionsI Can't series, where adults state they're unable to do something, they try it with a bunch of other adults who also "can't," and everyone proves themselves wrong and not only does the thing, but enjoys it and says, "That wasn't so bad. In fact, kinda fun. Good for me! What's next?!" As at camp, topics and structure are varied but the "be yourself amongst others being themselves, witness the magic that happens when you try with others trying" vibe is pervasive. Past I Can'ts have included yoga, improv, draw, have a dog, adult my money - financial planner edition, organize my home, ask for money, put on makeup, and buy a home. Future ones include Adult My Money.

For this I Can't edition, Mac & Cheese is partnering with Bonnie Shay and Laura Swartzbaugh, two women who found love again after divorce.

Bonnie and Laura combine concrete strategies with deeper thought work to help you manage your dating experience so that it's more successful and more fun. No matter where you are in your dating journey, they help you have a more positive experience by making better decisions about who you date, learning from each date, and determining whether or not you should go on more dates with "that one person." The bulk of the workshop is interactive and you come away with tips and techniques and a renewed energy to help you take steps towards finding love.

This offering is open to everyone -- all ages, genders, marital status...

What to Bring

Something to write on and with, food and drink for yourself (if you'd like)

Minimum age

All ages welcome

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A TEDx speaker and one of Brazen Careerist' s Top Twenty Young Professionals to Watch, Saya has discovered how to turn her love of creating community, challenging herself and those around her, and enjoying life to its fullest into her “job.” Via her company Mac & Cheese Productions℠, she helps others (and herself) live a Life of Yes℠. Saya is from Evanston, went to Boston College, and resides in Chicago.

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